Ask Christa: My Best & Worst Habits

"What is your best habit? What is your worst habit?

Ask Christa: What I Would Tell My 17 year old self

"If you could give your 10 year younger self one piece of advice, what would it be?"

Ask Christa: My Fitness Regime

"What is your fitness regime? What are your favorite exercise secrets?"

Am I Black or Am I Black-ish?

Last Wednesday, a new show starring Anthony Anderson, Laurence Fishbourne and Tracey Ellis Ross premiered. Blackish is a comedy about an upper middle class Black family living in L.A. While the title immediately stuck me as unappealing, I still watched. I'm glad I did because the show raised issues that many Blacks endure today, such as the need to preserve our culture, experiences in white corporate America, and raising a new generation to remember their Black history. However, the show met quite the "blacklash" from a lot of its audience members...

Ask Christa: What Makes Me Happy

"I'm always struggling to find my happiness. How do you find yours? What are the things that make you happy?"

Ask Christa: The One thing I'd Change about Myself

"What's one thing that you would change about yourself and why?

Ask Christa: Who are 'these hos'?

Dear Christa,

"What do you think about the phrase 'These hos ain't loyal'? Who are they and why aren't they loyal?"

Ask Christa: How To Deal With Career Disappointment

"I'm not in the career field that I want to be in and it's stressing me out. I can't help but to compare myself to my friends who all seem to be in a career that they love. How did you get the motivation to pursue the job that you really wanted?"

Ask Christa: Why are women so petty?!

"What are your thoughts on the Illuminati? Do you believe in it?"

Ask Christa: Illuminati Talk

"What are your thoughts on the Illuminati? Do you believe in it?"

Ask Christa: My best friend, her boyfriend, and me

"My best friend recently got into a new relationship. The problem is that she includes him in all of our plans! How do I tell her that I don't want him around all the time without hurting her feelings?"

Ask Christa: Justice for Michael Brown

"You haven't shared anything about the killing of Mike Brown in Ferguson, Missouri. What's your opinion?"

Ask Christa: Commitment Ultimatums & Premarital Sex

"Do men have to be offered an ultimatum to settle down or for marriage? Is sex a requirement for love or a lasting relationship?"

The Meaning Of Life

What is the meaning of life? If you randomly heard the answer on the street corner, would you pay attention? What if it was from someone who wasn't well-dressed or seemingly attractive? Would you still listen?

Interracial Dating: The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

One would think that the topic of interracial dating could be brought up in a discussion to openly exchange views. I was wrong. Interracial dating is still a subject that makes a lot of people uncomfortable, whether they're in an interracial relationship or not. I've found that there are four types of perspectives when it comes to interracial dating. 1) Those who enjoy and are comfortable dating outside of their race. 2) Those who think about it but don't care either way. 3) Those who don't support it, either passively or assertively. 4) Ones who refuse to date their own race and do so with an agenda.

One Year Natural!!!

Today marks my first year anniversary of being natural! Last year on this day, I made the decision to chop off my hair and embark on a journey that I knew would change my life. And boy, what a journey it's been!

Prom 2014 Recap!!

Hello my loves! As you may know, I had the honor of assisting a young lady get ready for prom. I'd like to introduce the fabulous winner of the Prom Giveaway...

Prom Giveaway!!

It's officially Prom Season! 10 years ago (yikes!), I was fortunate to have the funds to buy everything that I wanted for prom but some were not. I'd like to sponsor a young lady's prom this year. Read more to find out the details...

How I ALMOST Became The Other Woman...

    Since February is the month of love, I thought I'd share a dating story from my past. Disclaimer: Names and minor details have been changed to protect the innocent. 

New Year, Same Me?

Happy 2014 to all of my lovely readers! I hope that your new year has started off beautifully and you've made resolutions that are not only realistic but fanciful as well...because who are we not to fulfill our dreams and fantasies? I began 2014 with a resolution that I'd never thought I'd make...