Wednesday, March 20, 2013

What Lies Beneath...

What's Beauty? Is it the way her body's shaped? Or the way she's dressed? But if the whole world was blind, how many people would you impress?
Getting to know someone is like the peeling of an onion. The first layer is the outside. What do we first notice about a person? Their appearance: their smile, style of dress, etc. As we spend more time with that person, we're allowed to see deeper layers: their mannerisms, how they treat strangers and those that they know and love. And as more time passes, we see what that person thinks about him/herself.

Do they love themselves? Do they have a good heart? Do they surround themselves in positivity? These are questions that you should be asking of yourself concerning the company that you keep. But, sometimes we don't because we're fascinated with the physical/materialistic attributes that a person has.

What if the world was blind to your physical attributes? Fellas, how much time would you save because you didn't have to beef up at the gym? Ladies, think about how much of a second skin our leggings wouldn't have to be in order to break the necks of whomever you want to attract. Friends, think on how we would realize who to truly call our real friends based on behavior and actions. Think about how much more time we'd have to focus on getting to know someone's mind and heart and how much better off we'd be if we were emotionally, mentally and spiritually captivated to a person...

Wake up people! What lies beneath is what’s most important and is what a person will carry with them until death. Qualities like honesty, a wonderful sense of humor, intelligence, an optimistic view on life, empathy, loyalty, love, etc. These are things that can’t be washed down the drain like a woman’s makeup. They aren’t things that can erode as the paint of a prized car. And they certainly aren’t things that can be seen with the naked eye, but felt with the heart. Yes, it's cliche to say and redundant to hear but the older we get, the more we realize what our elders have been telling us since birth is the truth: True beauty lies within.

Thanks for reading! Peace :-D


5 comments:

  1. Bravo (as I clap like I just finished watching an opera or ballet). I may have to go back and read the rest of your blogs for added value, but this one touched me with a little more power than the others. How can I explain it? It's almost like making a cake without vanilla: it seems as if it is the most insignificant ingredient, but when you make a cake without it, you can taste that something is different without being able to quite put your finger on it. This piece had that vanilla in it lol!

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    1. I LOVE your vanilla analogy! I know exactly what you mean and I'm glad this one was something special for you :-)

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  2. Hey...thanks Christa! It was right on time and thought provoking!

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  3. Christa,
    I could give a TESTIMONY about this!! What's really moving is when you see the person at the high, middle, and low yet you still love them because you love THEM not their material things.


    Ang,
    blog.mywordsstarted.com

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    1. Hey Ang!!!

      Every time I think about love, I'm reminded of I Corinthians 13:4-8, "Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things."

      Love endures when your material things fade away. Where would we be without it??

      Thanks for stopping by and reading! Love ya!

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